How to Choose an AirBnB in Europe


It’s no secret that I travel a lot around Europe. Probably once or twice a month. Sometimes it’s a quick long weekend and other times it’s a two week adventure. I’ve written about how I plan and research for our European vacations and today I thought I would chat about how to choose an AirBnB.

When we travel, a lot of the time we stay in hotels because my sister works for a hotel chain and we get some great deals. Thanks, Laura! But sometimes, the hotels are booked or we’re traveling with a larger group, so we opt to rent an AirBnB instead.

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We’ve chosen AirBnB’s in Vienna, Venice, Geneva with my parents, Reims with friends and Split with my sister and boyfriend. All of the apartments have worked out and I’ve learned the best ways to search on the site, how to filter and what to look for on the listing. If you’re traveling to Europe, an AirBnB is a great option because you will most likely have access to a kitchen, be in the heart of town and save some money! Here are my tips for choosing an AirBnB in Europe.

Filter by entire apartment // First and foremost, I always filter by entire place. This way, I know I will not have to share with anyone and will be able to only see those options. The other options are for a private room or shared room and if those are up your alley, go for it! But when traveling with a spouse or another couple, going the entire place route is the way to go.

Choosing an apartment for your European vacation

Select the number of bedrooms, not number of beds // This one is especially important when traveling with more than one person or couple. I always filter by the number of bedrooms instead of number of beds. This way, you know there won’t be a pull out mattress in one room and the host is saying you can fit 6 people in an apartment with only two bedrooms.

Choosing the amenities // The amenities filter is where you can choose your preferences. If you will be working, blogging or wanting to stream Netflix, I always select WiFi. If you’re going in the summer, pick air conditioning and winter, select heat. Our AirBnB in Reims didn’t have air conditioning or fans, so we made sure to bring our own and it was a life saver!

Read the reviews // The reviews are where you get A LOT of information. Many reviewers will include how the check-in process was, if there are lots of stairs to the apartment and how close the place is to restaurants and attractions. Many people also say if the rooms are tight, there’s a bad smell or how attentive the host is. I do not rent it if there are less than 4 stars.

Essentials // Here’s a big one. Always make sure under the amenities tab of each listing shows “Essentials.” See how in this example, there is a line through air conditioning but not for essentials? This means that the apartment will have bed sheets, towels and soap. You do not want to show up on your vacation and have to find a store that sells towels just so you can take a shower.

Choosing your AirBnB apartment in Europe

Pay attention to house rules // This is where the host will put in information like if the apartment is suitable for events or if there are quiet hours and the check-in, check-out times. I pay close attention that the house rules say No Smoking since I don’t want to stay at a place that smells like smoke.

The photos are worth 1,000 words // Keep in mind that anyone can make a place look great with pictures, but really pay attention to them. For example, the same apartment in Reims didn’t really show a picture of the bathroom, only a picture of a tub and sink. This should have been a giveaway that there was no shower and only a tub with a handle on it. Everything worked out fine, but it was a little strange to only take baths for two days. I never worry about decor because who cares, you’re not going to be spending time in the place too much but want to make sure the beds look comfortable and not too small.

The cancellation policy // AirBnB has several different measures for cancellation. Some policies only allow you to cancel your trip for a full refund prior to 30 days. You’ll want to make sure you understand your options, just in case.

Communication with the host // I usually send several emails back and forth with the host, which you must do through AirBnB’s site. I tell them who we are, when we’re arriving and ask for restaurant recommendations. I emailed with our Reims host several times to ask about fans, which is how I knew we needed to bring them. Use the host as your concierge and ask anything. Most are usually super helpful and will recommend airport shuttles, restaurants and things to do in the area.

Well, those are my tips! I hope they help you book your next dream vacation.

Have you ever stayed at an AirBnB? If yes, how was it? Did you do anything other than the above tips when you booked? If no, would you ever?

Choosing an apartment for your next European vacation

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11 Things You Probably Don’t Know About Me: Sunshine Blogger Nomination


TGIF!! I’m popping on the blog today to share that Room for Gelato was nominated for a Sunshine Blogger Award, an award that highlights various bloggers and allows them to share 11 facts about themselves involving blogging, life and everything in-between.

I was nominated by Powered by Sass. Go check out her blog for some real-talk about life, body image, work-life balance and some hilarious anecdotes on surviving life as a military girlfriend. Thanks for the nomination, Kaitlyn.

Kaitlyn wrote these 11 questions and I’m going to share my answers and, hopefully, you’ll learn something new about me!


How did you get into blogging? 

Well, I originally started Room for Gelato to share my marathon training journey with friends and family. I was never really a “runner,” but wanted to challenge myself and reach a fitness goal. I ended up finishing the Nashville Marathon with my husband and took a break from blogging. When we moved to Germany in 2016, Room for Gelato became a way to share what this new life was like with everyone back home. Now, it’s about expat life, travel and all the great things in life. You can never have enough great things, like you can never turn down gelato after a big Italian meal.

Who are some of your favorite bloggers and blogging inspirations?

Oh gosh. I have so many. I got into blogs after a co-worker shared a blog post from Julie at Peanut Butter Fingers about how to pack for a two-week, European vacation and I’ve been addicted ever since. I also love Cupcakes & Cashmere, Carrots ‘n Cake, Powered by Sass, Maureen Gets Real, Blair Blogs, Capsule and Carly, the Prepster.

As far as blogging inspirations, I love to read articles from Pinterest and am super thankful for Blair Blogs’ Blogging Mentorship Program. Blair inspired me to go after my dreams and gave me the motivation to keep blogging and sharing.

What’s your most favorite vacation destination?

Oh man, this is a tough one because you know I love to travel! But if I have have to pick one, I would say Italy because there’s everything: beaches, mountains, vineyards and amazing food and wine.

What’s your #1 piece of advice for being confident?

Screw everyone else, you’re awesome. Let the world see it.

What do you love most about yourself?

Hmm…probably that I can turn any negative situation into a positive. I can always find the joke and use that to my advantage when going through a negative or sad time. I also think I’m quite hilarious.

What’s the one thing you can’t live without?

Cheesy answer: my husband, dog, family and friends. Legit answer: Probably my Apple TV.

What character from Friends are you and why?

My most favorite show of all time! If I have to pick one, I’d probably say Chandler because I am sarcastic and don’t take life too seriously. If I could pick two, I would add Monica because I’m a slight control freak and like to be the hostess and a good cook.

Favorite motivational quote?

Comparison is the thief of joy. I wrote a whole blog post about this topic!

Name 3 things you’ve learned since growing older that you wish your college self knew.

One, that your story will play out the way it is supposed to. Two, working in an office doesn’t have to be your career. Three, there are things you can’t control, loosen up.

What’s your favorite city in the U.S. to explore and why?

New York City. There’s just so much to see, do, eat and drink. There’s always a new, up and coming neighborhood to wonder, great Broadway shows and Magnolia Bakery is always a good idea.

What’s your all-time, I-will-die-if-I-never-eat-this-again favorite food?

My mom’s spaghetti and meatballs. No question!

That was fun! Did you learn something new?

Now onto the rules for the Sunshine Blogger Award. The rules are to nominate other bloggers and give them questions to answer on their blogs. I’m nominating 5 bloggers & giving them 11 questions to answer.

The bloggers I nominate:

  1. Maureen Gets Real
  2. Horne State of Mind
  3. Blair Blogs
  4. Capsule Blog 
  5. Pugs & Pearls 

Your Questions:

  1. Why did you decide to start blogging?
  2. What would you do if you weren’t blogging? If blogging is your side hustle, what would your side hustle be if you weren’t blogging?
  3. Where was the last place you traveled?
  4. Who was the last person you texted? What was the text?
  5. Where’s your favorite place to shop?
  6. What did you want to be when you grew up?
  7. What’s your favorite season and why?
  8. Favorite motivational quote?
  9. What’s your favorite sport to watch and play?
  10. If you could only go to the same destination for vacation each year, where would you go?
  11. What advice would you give to your 16-year old self?

Your Rules:

  1. Thank the person who nominated you in a blog post and link back to their blog.
  2. Answer the 11 questions sent by the person who nominated you.
  3. Nominate 5 new blogs to receive the award and write them 11 new questions.
  4. List the rules and display the Sunshine Blogger Award logo in your post and/or on your blog.

And now it’s your turn! Pick 3 of the above questions and answer them in the comments below so I can get to know you a little better! Happy Weekend!

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Happy Valentine’s Day, Experiences over Gifts


Happy Valentine’s Day. Or Galentine’s Day. Or just happy Wednesday if you don’t feel like celebrating this year.

I am a combination of the first and last this year. Valentine’s Day used to be all about writing little cards and giving out candy to everyone in your class, making a homemade mailbox for all the cards you’d receive and then eating your body weight in chocolate. I miss the simpler times.

I mean, I will gladly take all the chocolate and a nice card but really only need one from my husband. And probably my mom. She still sends me little notes and gifts on Valentine’s Day and I love that tradition. It usually involves heart Reese’s cups! So, this holiday will always have a special place in my heart because mine and Vinn’s first real date was Valentine’s Day 2007. Whoa, that was 11 years ago.

Vinn and I have celebrated with gifts, cards, candy and flowers years past but we’ve recently adopted an experience gifting scenario in place of physical gifts. I’ve written about it more in this post and this year is no exception. We booked a trip to Barcelona this weekend and it will be my first time visiting Spain. It’s been on my list for as long as I can remember and I’m really excited to finally check it! I hope we are still able to go because Vinn pulled a back muscle at a tennis match on Saturday and hasn’t been comfortable or mobile since. Fingers crossed.

I would much rather spend the holiday weekend experiencing new things with my husband than have another piece of jewelry or purse. I want to be able to sit on our front porch when we’re old and look back on all the things we did, not look at all the things we’ve bought.  I want to try new foods and build memories with my Valentine instead of gifts.

Of course, when we have kids, I will gladly welcome the homemade mailboxes again and will definitely give them gifts, but for now, I’m choosing experiences over gifts. They fuel my soul and are what make worth living.

What are you doing for Valentine’s Day this year?

Why I'm Choosing Experiences Over Gifts This Valentine's Day

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Cultural Differences Between Germany & America


I have certainly touched on some of the cultural differences between life in Germany compared to life in America, like no stores being open on Sundays and how your neighbor can sign for your packages in you aren’t home. Now that it’s been over two years since moving to Germany, I thought I would share even more cultural differences.

I would like to first say that these are not positive or negative things, they are merely differences. And differences are what make cultural so exciting and make the world go round. If you’re traveling to Germany, I hope these differences will allow for you to more easily adapt to life when you’re visiting. If you’re moving to Germany, I hope these will help ease you into your home.

Breastfeeding in public is no big deal here // I am not a mother but I have noticed that mothers here are more open and free with breastfeeding in public. I have seen women feeding their babies in grocery stores, restaurants, stores, etc. It’s a natural thing.

Car trips are given in distance, not time // If someone asks how far it is to your parents’ house, for example, Germans respond in kilometers. In the States, I would say I live 4 hours from my parents because I have no idea how many miles that is!

The middle finger // Giving someone the middle finger out of anger, like when you’re driving, is against the law. It can actually result in a lost license. Admittedly, I have to remember this a little too often.

Parenting and work reviews // I have been told by other Germans that parents are very critical and do that because it’s how they show love. If your parents aren’t criticizing you, they don’t love you. The same thing goes for work reviews. You will rarely get a, “That was so well done. Thank you so much. You’re great.” But you will get, “You have done a pretty good job, but…” Some say this produces children who can handle the world and are self-reliant and not reliant on trophies or pats on the back.

The German stares // It is well-known that Germans like things done a certain way and if you’re doing it wrong, they will point it out or just stare at you. If you wear athletic clothes outside the gym (hello, me everyday), then you will get stares. Sometimes, you’ll just be walking down the street and get stares. It takes some getting used to, but I don’t even notice it anymore.

More vacation time // It’s not just in the number of days, it is the acceptance that someone is on vacation that is most striking. Germans receive 30 days of vacation, as well as earning vacation days if they are an associate (not a manager, director or above) for working over 40 hours per week, but vacations are typically two weeks or more. In August, offices are a ghost town because people are on their summer holiday for 3 weeks. While this idea is unfathomable to many Americans, it is welcomed, appreciated and expected in Germany. The most striking thing is that co-workers, bosses and upper management accept when their employees are on vacation. No one bothers you, expects an email response or for anyone to log onto their computer at all. Projects aren’t expected to still be completed on time, either. “So-and-so is on vacation,” is a complete answer and is the project status. Of course, this isn’t always the case, but happens more often than not.

Team work // This one I know thanks to Vinn’s German teacher. He was in a lesson and asked how to say team work in German. She said, “team work,” just like in English. And then she went on to stay that Germans are not taught team work nor is it a focus in school or sports. Remember in college when you had 5 classes and 5 group projects? That doesn’t exist in Germany. Everything is by yourself. German students, even undergraduate students, must write a thesis surrounding a topic and include interviews with professionals. It’s all per student.

Splitting checks is easier // Eating out with friends is so much easier in Germany. The wait staff split the check for you and most places accept credit cards. There’s no getting a check, writing the last 4 digits of your card on the back of it and waiting for wait staff to swipe your card. In Germany, you just tell the waiter what you ate, how much you want to tip (you give the total amount you want to spent), and they run your card right at the table. It’s much easier! It will still take a long time, but it’s easier.

Of course there are more, but these are the ones that have affected me and stick out the most.

Have you ever been to a country other than your own? What culture differences did you notice? 

Cultural Differences Between Germany & US, What to know when traveling to Germany

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The German Post System


You would think getting mail would be the same everywhere, wouldn’t you? Sure, some places are quicker than others and some companies are most trustworthy thank others. And, of course, visiting the post office is never fun, no matter where you are.

Now that it’s been two years, I have gotten used to the German post system and, while it’s still not the easiest to understand, I’m going to share what it’s like to get your mail in Germany.

First and foremost, there are several different mail companies and not just for packages. Our mail, like bills and magazines, can come from either BW Post, which is the post for our state, or Deutsche Post, the system for the country. The mail carriers actually ride around on electric bikes to deliver the mail. They have a huge pouch on the front and ride around to deliver the mail. Copley loves to bark at them while on our walks.

Newspapers are delivered right to your mailbox, as well. They are free and take up a lot of space in the mailbox. If someone doesn’t want a newspaper, they have to put a note on their mailbox, otherwise, you get one.

When packages are delivered, there’s a whole other process. There are several companies that provide shipping for online ordering and they come at all hours of the day. If you aren’t home, you may get a note in your box that says a neighbor has signed for it or that it is at the post office and you need to go pick it up. Our first Christmas here, I ordered Vinn’s Christmas present from Amazon and I wasn’t home when it was delivered. The slip in my mailbox said that someone two houses down from me signed for it. So, I had to walk over to the house, ring the doorbell and ask for my package. I had never met the person, yet she signed for my package. “Hi Stranger, Can I have my husband’s Christmas present? K, thanks.” This is common practice. It says a lot about how trusting Germans are.

If you order something from another country, like the US, you will get a letter in the mail that notifies you that you have to go to the customs office to pay the customs. Sometimes it’s a couple Euros, sometimes it’s almost 30. It’s just a percentage of the total amount. This isn’t for every shipment, sometimes you can pay the customs up front. I actually have to go in the near future and it’s a pain in the butt. You have to provide the receipt of what you bought, your identification and the letter you received in the mail.

All in all, the mail system is pretty simple in Germany, it just took some getting used to. If you are ever going to move to Germany, I hope this helps!

Is there anything unique about how you get your mail? Any crazy post office stories?

How you get mail in Germany,  The Differences Between America

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