It’s Monday, the start of a new week and, for me, the start of a new blogging schedule. I have been doing a lot of thinking, behind the scenes working and discussing about where I want this blog to go, what I want to do with my life and what the future looks like. I talked about it a little bit in this post where I shared how I want to follow my passion. Now I am putting these thoughts into action!
I have signed up for a blogging course/mentorship program and am putting a lot more time and effort into following my dream. I have a plan in place to take this whole writing gig to the next level and am going to activate this plan one step at a time. My dad always says, “By the inch, it’s a synch. By the mile, it’s a trial.”
That being said, I have come to realize that quality is more important than quality. I haven’t really had a schedule for when I write, stuck to a timeline or anything remotely related to structure of any kind. I operate my best life when I am on a schedule, so why haven’t I transferred this over to my writing? Instead of just wondering, I’m giving myself a schedule.
I will now post a blog Monday, Wednesday and Friday mornings. I love sitting down and reading blogs with a cup of coffee and I hope you all can do the same with mine! It’s such a great way to ease into the day.
Friday Favs will no longer be a weekly series, but now a monthly series. I’ve found that I struggle to post fun things every week that aren’t surrounded by travel or even worth noting. A lot can happen in a month and I think having favs every month will be much better from my side, as well as the your’s.
What will I write about? Many of the same things, really. I want to focus on topics surrounding expat life, German culture, our travel adventures, great recipes, things I’m loving and anything and everything fun along the way! I want Room for Gelato to be a place where we can share the joys of life and to focus on the positive.
Overall, I am really excited about the future and hope you will continue to follow along. And to always remember that life is better when you save room for gelato.
Is there anything specific you want to see here? Any topics about life abroad that seem interesting?
2017 is really flying by, am I right? I can’t believe it. And the weather this week has been absolutely wonderful and is making me so happy for spring. It is incredible how much the weather can impact my mood and now that spring has officially sprung in Germany, I thought I’d share my spring to-do list.
I love to-do lists or goals because it gives me something to strive for and work towards. We are only living in Germany for two more years and there is so much to do and see. I don’t want to miss a thing!
Go to the top of the Stuttgart TV Tower. This tv tower is to Stuttgart what Big Ben is to London. I would love to go to the top of it and get a great view of our city.
Visit the Ludwigsburg Palace. Spring is in bloom here and the Ludwigsburg Palace goes all out with flowers and decorating. Florals for spring? Groundbreaking. (If you get this movie reference, we are true friends.) If spring is anything like the pumpkin festival, we will be in for a treat.
Go to the Beauty and the Beast fountain. Easter weekend we are traveling to the Alsace, France region where the little city that is the inspiration for the movie’s town. And the only thing I want to do is go sit on a fountain, pretend to read a book and get a picture. It will be fabulous.
Make some new dinners. I’ve been in a cooking rut for the past few weeks and I can’t to get out of it! I’m going to scour my cookbooks and find some cooking inspiration. Time to get back to the kitchen.
Read some more books. I love reading and it’s part of my spring to-do’s to keep reading and to keep sharing what I’m reading.
Spend lots of time outside. Great weather is fleeting and I want to spend as much time outside as possible. Daily walks with Copley are a must and hopefully we can use our walks to explore some new cities.
Celebrate my best friend. My best friend’s wedding is the first week of May and I cannot wait to celebrate the most important day of her life. It’s the biggest to-do this season.
What are your to-do’s this spring?
I am a planner by nature. I love mapping out my days on my Google calendar, using Google Docs to research our upcoming travels and writing down goals for the future. I’m always working towards something to make life better and to be checking that next “box.” College degree, check. Job, check. Marriage, check.
And then after three years of marriage and moving to Germany, I realized that the next boxes to check, like buying a house, having a baby and a booming career, suddenly had to be put on hold. It’s been an unsettling feeling, but I’ve come to the conclusion that life is better without a specific plan and a more generalized view of the future. Here’s why I ditched my five year plan!
My five year plan when I was 25 looked like this:
Of course, these are still goals of mine, but I got rid of the timeframe. A lot can change in five years, hello, like moving across the pond! The other thing is that most of these things come with societal pressures. Oh, you graduated five+ years ago, but you’re still living in a rented apartment? Why? You should have a house by now.
The questions of when we’re going to have kids are happening because we’re at that stage of life, but I honestly don’t have an answer. If we were back in the States, I’d probably be ready towards the end of the year. But there’s so much to experience here in Europe and our apartment isn’t exactly kid-friendly. I know we’d make it work if it happens, but I’m having no plan.
I’ve written about my career questions and I’ve learned that it’s important to be happy, that money isn’t everything and a career means different things to different people. I’m still in a bit of a crossroads, but I am extremely thankful that I have jobs that help contribute to our life here.
People say, “We make plans and God laughs.” I think this saying is so incredibly true! It’s great to have goals and ambitions, but having a specific time in mind is hard. It can lead to disappointment, which has happened to me. I’ve had dark times thinking about not being a marketing manager with a team because I thought that’s where I would be now. But, if I had that, I wouldn’t have this amazing life in Germany.
I can say that I am so happy with where my life is and I think it’s because I let it go, like Elsa says. I’ve released myself from the timeline, the “must-do” list by this time. At this moment of life, I’m getting comfortable with the unknown and that some of life’s best moments are the spontaneous ones.
Tuesday was my half-birthday. I’m halfway to 29…and that feels really weird. It kinda feels like that scene from Newlyweds when Jessica Simpson says, “I’m 23, that’s almost 25, which is almost mid-twenties.” I’m almost 30. Whoa.
On my birthday, I wrote 28 things I wanted to do during my 28th year. And since it’s my half-birthday, I thought it would be fun to check in with how I’m doing with my goals for the year. Plus, it will be really good to see where I need to focus the next 6 months!
What do you want to accomplish in the next six months?
In lieu of the craziness that is happening in America right now, I thought I’d focus on something positive today: goals. Monthly goals are always fun to write and help me focus. Even if I don’t accomplish everything, I still want to continue to move forward.
My October goals were ambitious, especially since we had a lot of traveling on our to-do list.
Read Two Books. Nope, not even close. I didn’t finish one book. I’m embarrassed.
Work Out 5 – 6 Days a Week. Sorta. I will say that I have been very good about my workouts lately. I have been doing a lot of intervals and a lot of weights, mostly high intensity interval training. I don’t think I technically worked out 5 days a week every week, but I did many times. Win!
Purge my Closet. Check. I finally donated a lot of items that were in my closet. A lot of things were just too big or something that I didn’t even like. I would put on a sweater and look at myself in the mirror a few hours lately and just think, “Why do I own this? This is so ugly and unflattering.” Into the pile it went. The best news is now I can go shopping.
Try at least 1 New Recipe. Win. I made a healthier version of chicken fried rice and it is so good!
And now, onto goals for November!
Write 35,000 words for my book. I’ve wanted to write a book for as long as I can remember. I (clearly) love to write and I feel like I have a story to tell. I’ve started writing it several times but haven’t gotten very far. This month is the month to get a chunk done.
Decorate for the holidays. Admittedly, I’ve already started doing this. With no Thanksgiving, I feel like there’s nothing holding me back. The Christmas markets are amazing here, so I feel like some new decor is in my future.
Try a new restaurant. We love going out to eat and have found some really great restaurants in our area. But now that we’ve found some great ones, we keep going back. It’s not a bad thing, but I want to branch out and try something new this month.
Get to 30 burpees in one sitting. I love/hate burpess. They are intense, but effective. They get your heart rate up and are super toning. I want to do 30 in a row, no breaks.
What are your November goals?